Stories Project: The Castle and Collector
In 2024, we launched the Chiddingstone Castle Stories Project. The first stage aimed to capture memories of Denys Eyre Bower and the history of Chiddingstone Castle since he bought it in 1955. We wanted to learn more about who Denys was as a person, his collections and displays, and how the castle was run. Through recorded interviews, we collected stories that can be shared with the local community and visitors to the castle, preserving them for the future.
Interview 1.
Robert Everest, 13.3.2024
Robert was born and brought up in Chiddingstone, where he lived until his marriage in 1974. When he was a teenager in the mid 1960’s, he worked at Chiddingstone Castle on Sunday afternoons, taking money for tickets at the gate into the village. He has fond memories of his time in this role, for which he was paid ten shillings for 3 hours. He passed the time when he was not selling tickets listening to the radio and revising for his exams.
Robert remembers meeting Denys and the original trustees of the castle, Mary and Ruth Eldridge. He remembers Denys wearing a monocle and driving his Rolls Royce through the village. Denys was usually dressed quite formally in an older style three-piece suit.
The layout of the house was very different in 1960’s. Robert remembered lots of black lacquer boxes on display, the armour lined up in the dark corridor, and the original Peter Lely painting. He was sometimes asked to patrol the rooms inside the house making sure no one took anything.
Interview 2.
Margaret Cooke, 26.3.2024.
Margaret was born in Southport, Lancashire. Her connection to Chiddingstone began in the 1970s when she was proposed to on the bridge at Chiddingstone Castle and then visited the castle with her mother. She moved to Chiddingstone in 1994 from Ashdown Forest and began her role as Head Teacher at Chiddingstone School, where she worked for 18 years. She has found living in Chiddingstone Village to be a remarkable experience, as she has felt integrated into the heart of the community which is strong across all generations. She has developed a close relationship with the castle. She remembers creating educational activities and Christmas events for her pupils along with Ruth and Mary Eldridge.
Margaret retired from her role as a trustee of Chiddingstone Castle in 2024, having supported its development with her experience and knowledge. Margaret shared her memories of her first visit to the castle in the 1970s and her impression of Denys observing his visitors. Her memory is a fascinating snapshot of the experience of a visitor when Denys still lived at the castle.
Interview 3.
Heather & David McGill, 14.3.2024
Heather and David were both born in South Africa. They came to England in 2002 and initially lived in London before moving to Lyme Regis where they worked at a bed and breakfast establishment.
They saw an advert for live-in housekeepers at Chiddingstone Castle in Lady Magazine and went to an interview with Ruth Eldridge. Ruth phoned and offered them the job that same night and they started a week later. They organised weddings and events such as vintage car rallies and classical music concerts. Heather worked in the Tea Room, where she still volunteers today. David worked on the maintenance of the grounds and building and until recent years volunteered in the Gift Shop. Their memories give us an insight into what it took to keep the castle going after it was established as an independent charitable trust by Ruth Eldridge in 1984.
Interview 4.
David Beattie, 26.3.2024.
David Beattie was the Principal Secretary of the Royal Stuart Society from 1997 to 2002. He has been going through its records to write a history of the Society for its centenary in 2026, which will be published in the near future. He shared with us his insights into Denys and his role in the society.
As part of his research, David interviewed a man called John Yeowell who worked closely with Denys in the 1950’s and knew him well. He shared some fascinating stories which give us an insight into Denys’ character.
Interview 5.
Juliet Bangerter, 2.9.2025
Juliet Bangerter grew up in Biggin Hill and recalled visiting Chiddingstone Castle regularly as a child. Her grandparents Frank and Doris worked for Denys Eyre Bower as custodian and housekeeper. She recognised her grandmother Doris in a photograph with Denys sitting at a ticket desk in what is today known as the Housekeeper’s Room.
Frank and Doris lived at the Castle for around four or five years in the late 60s. Frank showed visitors around the Castle and was responsible for locking up at the end of the day. Doris helped with selling tickets, admin tasks, and occasionally cooked for Denys. Juliet visited her grandparents at the Castle, spent Christmas with them, and remembered staying up late one evening to watch a ball going on in the Great Hall.
Acknowledgements
We are very grateful to Robert Everest, Margaret Cooke, David Beattie, Heather and David McGill, Juliet Bangerter, and Mark Streatfeild for taking the time to participate in these interviews. The stories and memories they shared with us have enhanced our understanding of the history of the castle and Denys Eyre Bower. They will be added to the Chiddingstone Castle archive as resources for future research and displays.
This project was made possible by castle volunteers Linda Redden, Jackie Dunkley, and Jean French. Linda planned the project, conducted the interviews, and transcribed them. She also prepared audio clips. Jackie and Jean assisted with the transcription and summaries of the interviews.
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